This transition has been much more trying on my independent spirit than I thought it would be. I have neglected to blog a little because I am worried that a little bit of whining would reflect into what I write about. At risk of sounding ungrateful or selfish, I once again have waited for the feeling to pass. I can be honest and say that it has faded a bit, just in the last week in fact. I went through a period where the thought of writing was one I purposely put into the back of my head, because I didn't feel anything was worth writing about. Which is crazy, isn't it? You'd think a day that I did laundry in Germany would astound me enough to write about it, but when I am stuck in a funk, the selfish corner of my psyche refuses to try anything, other than feel sorry for myself.
I worry once again that that paragraph makes me seem ungrateful. But it is true what they say, or what I think. Where you go is just geography, a point of latitude and longitude on a map. No one ever said that if you close your eyes and point to a place on a globe, you will find happiness there. I think a lot of this experience will open my eyes to that realization...more and more everyday. That sentence almost made me cry. Last monday I made a mental commitment to myself to stop with the self-pity "I'm all alone" pamphlet I skim through everyday in my mind. Yes, I am all alone, and I allotted myself a certain amount of time in my head to cry into my stuffed dinosaur at night, but I didn't actually think about those feelings being authentic instead of just part of the plan I had hatched for this adventure. Anyone who knows me, knows I over think everything. Anyone who knows me is aware that I would rather panic about having enough coins for laundry than just waiting to get home and counting them first. This could easily be a character flaw, and a recognizable one, but either way, it usually can prevent me from making a really big mistake. It can also make the big decisions I make look like mistakes if I am not careful.
This blog entry is starting to look like an elaborate collection of excuses when I am merely trying to explain the current state of mind I am in. I will blog more later about my latest adventures... We went to the Zoo last week, and I went to Munich this past Saturday. Neither event being too eventful, but interesting nonetheless. The contrast in lifestyle is just incredible. I know that they say it's a "world away", but people are people, and things are things...yet they're so DIFFERENT.
I will get into all of that later, this I promise. I have found a variant source of strength recently and I think it will be enough fuel to keep me chugging along until I discover yet another origin of fortitude. That faith I maintain.
bis zum nächsten Mal
I worry once again that that paragraph makes me seem ungrateful. But it is true what they say, or what I think. Where you go is just geography, a point of latitude and longitude on a map. No one ever said that if you close your eyes and point to a place on a globe, you will find happiness there. I think a lot of this experience will open my eyes to that realization...more and more everyday. That sentence almost made me cry. Last monday I made a mental commitment to myself to stop with the self-pity "I'm all alone" pamphlet I skim through everyday in my mind. Yes, I am all alone, and I allotted myself a certain amount of time in my head to cry into my stuffed dinosaur at night, but I didn't actually think about those feelings being authentic instead of just part of the plan I had hatched for this adventure. Anyone who knows me, knows I over think everything. Anyone who knows me is aware that I would rather panic about having enough coins for laundry than just waiting to get home and counting them first. This could easily be a character flaw, and a recognizable one, but either way, it usually can prevent me from making a really big mistake. It can also make the big decisions I make look like mistakes if I am not careful.
This blog entry is starting to look like an elaborate collection of excuses when I am merely trying to explain the current state of mind I am in. I will blog more later about my latest adventures... We went to the Zoo last week, and I went to Munich this past Saturday. Neither event being too eventful, but interesting nonetheless. The contrast in lifestyle is just incredible. I know that they say it's a "world away", but people are people, and things are things...yet they're so DIFFERENT.
I will get into all of that later, this I promise. I have found a variant source of strength recently and I think it will be enough fuel to keep me chugging along until I discover yet another origin of fortitude. That faith I maintain.
bis zum nächsten Mal